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	<title>Comments on: What Women Really Want</title>
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		<title>By: j.k.lynn</title>
		<link>http://twelfthjen.wordpress.com/2009/04/18/what-women-really-want/#comment-309</link>
		<dc:creator>j.k.lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 16:04:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Must be nice to have something to ponder. There is more where that came from.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Must be nice to have something to ponder. There is more where that came from.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Calimbas</title>
		<link>http://twelfthjen.wordpress.com/2009/04/18/what-women-really-want/#comment-308</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Calimbas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 15:14:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What an epiphany to re-visit the past and marvel at how manyh women&#039;s jerk I must be. 

Mike</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What an epiphany to re-visit the past and marvel at how manyh women&#8217;s jerk I must be. </p>
<p>Mike</p>
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		<title>By: Dawn</title>
		<link>http://twelfthjen.wordpress.com/2009/04/18/what-women-really-want/#comment-238</link>
		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 04:35:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>3x married ... divorced with children to raise. At 45 all I want to add is that I believe I&#039;ve seen most of the contrasts in the male species. What I want, now:

1) able and willing to discuss anything (open heart)
2) giving lover (not selfish in bed)
3) thoughtful and caring 
4) humorous (BIG because life has enough stress on its own)
5) THE ONE YOU HIT ON THE HEAD: you have to like yourself first ... if that&#039;s not there first, it really does show, especially if you have children together and are unable to put the needs of dependents first. Children are a reflection of YOU, the ones who created them. At least know who you are and like what you see ... you&#039;ll see it in them and fall in love all over again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>3x married &#8230; divorced with children to raise. At 45 all I want to add is that I believe I&#8217;ve seen most of the contrasts in the male species. What I want, now:</p>
<p>1) able and willing to discuss anything (open heart)<br />
2) giving lover (not selfish in bed)<br />
3) thoughtful and caring<br />
4) humorous (BIG because life has enough stress on its own)<br />
5) THE ONE YOU HIT ON THE HEAD: you have to like yourself first &#8230; if that&#8217;s not there first, it really does show, especially if you have children together and are unable to put the needs of dependents first. Children are a reflection of YOU, the ones who created them. At least know who you are and like what you see &#8230; you&#8217;ll see it in them and fall in love all over again.</p>
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		<title>By: How I Was Able to Lose T h i r t y P o u n d s in Only a Month</title>
		<link>http://twelfthjen.wordpress.com/2009/04/18/what-women-really-want/#comment-237</link>
		<dc:creator>How I Was Able to Lose T h i r t y P o u n d s in Only a Month</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 14:54:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, nice post. I have been wondering about this issue,so thanks for blogging. I&#039;ll probably be subscribing to your blog. Keep up the good work</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, nice post. I have been wondering about this issue,so thanks for blogging. I&#8217;ll probably be subscribing to your blog. Keep up the good work</p>
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		<title>By: j.k.lynn</title>
		<link>http://twelfthjen.wordpress.com/2009/04/18/what-women-really-want/#comment-213</link>
		<dc:creator>j.k.lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 17:11:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Are you being my jerk, Michael? Awww, how sweet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you being my jerk, Michael? Awww, how sweet.</p>
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		<title>By: j.k.lynn</title>
		<link>http://twelfthjen.wordpress.com/2009/04/18/what-women-really-want/#comment-212</link>
		<dc:creator>j.k.lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 16:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Little Nicky... *shudder* Gawd, that was awful. Well, there are exceptions to every rule, Mitch, but we&#039;re talking in generalizations out of necessity here. You can substitute &lt;em&gt;Adam Sandler&#039;s sense of humor&lt;/em&gt; with &quot;Paul Rudd&#039;s sense of humor&quot; if you&#039;d like. My point is the same. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Little Nicky&#8230; *shudder* Gawd, that was awful. Well, there are exceptions to every rule, Mitch, but we&#8217;re talking in generalizations out of necessity here. You can substitute <em>Adam Sandler&#8217;s sense of humor</em> with &#8220;Paul Rudd&#8217;s sense of humor&#8221; if you&#8217;d like. My point is the same. <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mitch Berg</title>
		<link>http://twelfthjen.wordpress.com/2009/04/18/what-women-really-want/#comment-211</link>
		<dc:creator>Mitch Berg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2009 07:55:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;Adam Sandler’s sense of humor&lt;/i&gt;

I don&#039;t care how &quot;perfect&quot; a woman is in every other way; if she had anything to do with &quot;Little Nicky&quot;, I&#039;m done with her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Adam Sandler’s sense of humor</i></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t care how &#8220;perfect&#8221; a woman is in every other way; if she had anything to do with &#8220;Little Nicky&#8221;, I&#8217;m done with her.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
		<link>http://twelfthjen.wordpress.com/2009/04/18/what-women-really-want/#comment-204</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 00:21:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(smiley face)</description>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 00:21:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well done Jen!  &quot;You are most likely some woman&#039;s jerk&quot; - very insightful.

The rest of it was shit though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well done Jen!  &#8220;You are most likely some woman&#8217;s jerk&#8221; &#8211; very insightful.</p>
<p>The rest of it was shit though.</p>
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		<title>By: j.k.lynn</title>
		<link>http://twelfthjen.wordpress.com/2009/04/18/what-women-really-want/#comment-192</link>
		<dc:creator>j.k.lynn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2009 22:02:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very true regarding the attached man = women-after-him syndrome. I didn&#039;t even hit on that, but it&#039;s definitely related. Women see a man at ease, maybe already a doting father and feel an attraction. It&#039;s also telling, though, that the opposite isn&#039;t true. Men, most usually, see women with children and detour away.

It&#039;s my hope, not my belief, that for the most part, we all try to stay away from already committed people. I&#039;ve watched that train wreck from all positions too, and that path results in nothing but consequence. 

Thanks for the comment, @Cleach_WU!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very true regarding the attached man = women-after-him syndrome. I didn&#8217;t even hit on that, but it&#8217;s definitely related. Women see a man at ease, maybe already a doting father and feel an attraction. It&#8217;s also telling, though, that the opposite isn&#8217;t true. Men, most usually, see women with children and detour away.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s my hope, not my belief, that for the most part, we all try to stay away from already committed people. I&#8217;ve watched that train wreck from all positions too, and that path results in nothing but consequence. </p>
<p>Thanks for the comment, @Cleach_WU!</p>
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