So…I Got Political.

2009 April 23
by j.k.lynn

Don’t get used to it.

Although I always maintain that my political viewpoints are far too scattered to attach myself to a specific party, I’ve found I often lean right, at least financially. Socially, I still find myself agreeing more with the left. I fought my Republican father tooth and nail throughout my youth on most of his politically incorrect opinions, but as I grew older and became a tax-paying citizen, I saw the truth inherent in quite a few of his words.

A friend of mine asked me once about what I thought it would take to encourage younger people to get excited about or at the very least, understand the Republican party. My response is as follows.

The media, the world, the liberals, even the conservatives themselves have done an excellent job of painting a pretty awful picture of the Republican party. Remember the younger generations were raised by Vietnam war protesters, Haight Ashbury survivors, Free Love supporters, even just the silent observers of the political mess that was the 60’s and 70’s. The Civil Rights fighting, a Nation divided in thought, and truly the first example in the US of total irreverence for all things tradition and government. “Down with the Man” was born. Nixon, Reagan, Bush…these faces do not have too much of a difference and come with a HUGE negative slant when it comes to a young person these days. We’ve inherited the cynicism of our fathers, perhaps in spades. War monger’s. Power Tripping A-holes. Uncaring, rigid, unbending jerks with a private agenda and would take any measure to reach that goal. These thoughts are but a few of the ones running rampant through any typical 20 to even 30 year old’s mind.

Most of these people (my age group) are operating under the idea that their thoughts are their own and original, however, these stereotypes of the Right I just mentioned have been encouraged in many ways, mainly by the conservative party itself. Whether through media bias (which DOES occur on ALL fronts, liberal & conservative, but predominantly liberal) , through the cynicism of the previous generations battle scars with lost causes like Vietnam, through our liberal leaning educations, through the birth of the instant gratification culture where we know more about the new Mortal Kombat game and the new Batman movie than Prop 8, through excellent word-of-mouth campaigns, the ill-advised choice of the awkward Pres. Dubya Bush for a representative of the party,…and much more, it is hard to distinguish the real people involved in the party through the ugly blanket thrown over the entire Right. Remember, I am talking about the VERY common perception, not the reality.

My generation hates soccer moms and all that they stand for. They sneer at the traditional values that the members of the Right so often hold dear. They are almost exclusively children of divorce, infidelity, abuse, R-rated movies, and cynicism nurtured from the womb. They are not voting because they want to preserve the values that they see fail every single day. The failures of our parents and authority figures to uphold the truth of goodness and virtue that they preach have much more far-reaching effects than we can know. This isn’t a rebellious, teen angsty POV. It is an abhorrence of the hypocritical image so often associated with the religious and the virtuous, because the attempt to be more enlightened and a good person is no longer enough.

The common excuse of being human and failing doesn’t matter to this scarred and often childish generation. This has evolved into a preciously held belief. We can’t believe in marriage, love, happiness, and virtue (look at our examples of that epic fail) so as usual, people must find something to believe in. The Anti-values Belief. When you believe in being “groovy” with everything, being PC about everything and accepting all forms of relationships and life, it leaves little room for disappointment and failure. Everything is cool.

And this is where the Left makes its grand entrance. Liberals are associated with beliefs that are harder to pin down and harder to be scarring hypocrites about. Scarring was the key word there. The environment, animals, civil rights, women’s rights, seemingly against big business, a more hippie, earthy, open approach to life…who doesn’t care about these things today? The requirements from our country, both economically and politically, to fulfill some of the more idealistic dreams of the Left don’t factor in with my age group. Instant gratification, remember, not a ton of forward thinking. Half of us secretly believe we are headed to some kind of alien Armageddon, for crying out loud. You see how ridiculously easy it is for this generation to walk into the libs camp and act like they were destined for it? We were raised for it.

There are less differences than one might think between the Right and Left. This is an arguable point but I would deviate from this point far too much if I went into specifics. The party differences are at the core and issue related and people are forgetting that. What seems to be the new thought and new common belief is that the differences are more emotional and more personal. What I mean by that is, our two parties seem to be divided more along lines that have less and less to do with the real issues and more to do with the surface politics, the perceived faces. Each day the parties seem to polarize more along these new, ill-defined fault lines.

SO the first step in reversing this trend before it is too late would be analyzing the situation correctly then applying a well thought out treatment that adapts to the problem, versus sticking to your guns and refusing to change.

21 Responses leave one →
  1. 2009 April 23

    Awesome article! Thanks, Jen!

    My blog is at http://david-joshua-ginsberg.blogspot.com — my 2nd blog is coming soon!

    ~D.J.

  2. 2009 April 23

    You’re one kid and a hefty tax bill away from being a conservative for the rest of your life (that’s how we hook people-real life circumstances).

    Glad you finally posted this!

  3. 2009 April 24

    The problem is that so much of what is advocated by the Left sounds really neat- But they are systems designed for angels, not men. The founders knew that we are fallible men and deliberately designed the system around that weakness. Keeping that and much else the founders believed from the young is why they so urgently try to choke off anything other than government schools.

  4. 2009 April 24
    Faith permalink

    So true…what you say about our generation. It’s like there are two planes of thought these days; that of logical thinking and that of never-never land. I don’t get it. There are facts and there is the media……. There is history and there is the media……. Um….hello…..

  5. 2009 April 24

    Let me start off by saying how much I love young people today. I am so impressed with the individuality, self-expression, the fearlessness in how they approach life. I, for one, am thrilled at the possibilities of the future. You are a fantastic example of the potential possibilities!

    We grew up in the 60’s & 70’s – eras of exploration, searching, experimentation…pushing the boundaries of what seemed to be a trapped existence. Possibly the only thing we knew for sure was what we didn’t want! What we (now parents) learned was that there were more important things than working in an unrewarding job, unfulfilled dreams and staying in failing, negative and dangerous relationships. We opened up our hearts to diversity and equality. Those are changes that you can see in the world today. I had great concern about the influence of the 80’s and the “me” generation. The examples set by parents who related to that lifestyle, those goals…well, it frightened me.

    “War monger’s. Power Tripping A-holes. Uncaring, rigid, unbending jerks with a private agenda and would take any measure to reach that goal..” That’s why the young want nothing to do with the Republican party. The last 8 years had major influence on the choices young people today make.

    Our children (you) grew up with a view to reality that we or our parents didn’t have. You saw the wars and death in real time. You are seeing huge economic decline that you have never seen before. You are able to see the direct link between politics and it’s impact on the real world, real people. “Kids these days” have more information than has ever been available before, intelligent young adults can put the puzzle pieces together and see how each of us impacts the world.

    The real issues do seem to be a great divide. Abstinence vs. Education, abortion rights, privacy rights, equal pay, equal rights, healthcare, etc., these are critical decisions and experiences that young adults face every day. They live in the world where decisions about these things were made by people who don’t seem to be aligned with their beliefs, their needs. They too are pushing at the boundaries of what must seem a world created without considering the impact on them and their lives. They know what they don’t want.

    As parents our most important responsibility is to teach our children to be critical thinkers. I reel to hear anyone blaming their choices and life decisions on someone else. If anything, it is the example that parents set and the values that they live that have influence on choices you and other young adults make in their own lives.

    It is tiring to hear how the choices young people make today are the fault of their parents.

    My daughter takes the time to learn about candidates and issues. She questions everything she learns and hears. When she registered to vote (and very excited to vote), she asked about the parties; the differences, the people representing them, the laws they supported. She tries to make concious, educated decisions. She does that because that was what she was taught, because that is the example that was set for her. She does that because she is a strong person who values her own thought processes, she trusts herself, she thinks. She strives to be a more enlightened and good person.

    If “we” are to blame anyone for anything, it’s not being a concious parent and ensuring the individuality, awareness and conciousness of our children. But, you are all grown up now and it is your responsibility to seek the truth and make concious, informed decisions.

    • 2009 October 20

      I wrote a long response to this awhile back and it was eaten up, as the world of the Internet sometimes does. I always meant to come back and write a response and never did. As I tend to do.

      What I’d like to say is simply this. I love your response. It’s thoughtful, interesting and filled with possibility. I still think your children are more the exception than the rule, but being a hopeful person at heart, am willing to agree that this highly educated generation may still have a bright future ahead of it.

  6. 2009 April 27

    Wonderful writing, and I agree with much of what you have to say…

  7. 2009 April 28

    Howdy. I follow you on Twitter and followed you here! NO I’m not a stalker really. :)

    I did however post a link to this article in my most recent edition of Profitable Productive Posts – The Twitter Edition.

    While this article isn’t about twitter I did come to it by way of twitter. I have enjoyed your tweets and this article so much I wanted to pass it along.

    • 2009 April 28

      What a wonderful compliment! Thanks for pimping me out on your blog and I am so glad you enjoyed this post.

      Stalk away, friend. That’s what Twitter is all about. :)

  8. 2009 April 28

    As a conservative who is constantly frustrated that attractive women either are extreme hedonists or live conservatively but don’t *think* about it, you give me hope.

    I tend to write off the women who *seem* intelligent but don’t care a fig about political/philosophical discourse because I ask myself ‘won’t it constantly be a battle if she hasn’t figured it out by now?’ but perhaps there’s always time to learn.

    Shawn

  9. 2009 May 1

    One of your biggest–and best–points is the second to the last paragraph, though with one correction: the difference between parties is seemingly smaller and smaller, but the differences between Right and Left remain.

  10. 2009 May 12
    JPFUSCA permalink

    Ms. Lynn, I follow you on Twittet and enjoy your POV on several topics but none has caught my fancy more than your political POV! It is for these very same reasons that I am an ” Independent” or more accurately, Non-Partisan. However, I consider myself a Libertarian when it comes to government control, a Liberal when it comes to Environmental issues, a Conservative when it comes to religion, morals, & family values, and Moderate as far as most other topics are concerned. So you see, it’s ok to not conform to any particular party affiliation. That’s the beauty of this great nation of ours!
    Corruption of Conformity,
    -J.P.

  11. 2009 May 12
    John Lynn permalink

    I am one of your Twitter followers and am pleased to see that you and I have the same last name.

    It’s a great article that has helped me understand my children and their friends.

    You might be too kind to us in describing our bad behavior in the 60’s and 70’s and its effect on our children.

    After being a commie-hippie in the 60’s, I am now firmly Republican because of national defense issues, belief in individual rights and belief that a capitalist economic system is the best way to meet human needs and desires.

    • 2009 May 12

      I’m glad to hear you not only enjoyed what I wrote, but that it meant something to you.

      I think I understand what you mean when you say I was too kind to your generation, but too be fair, we are just people. We’re trying to find our way through the chaotic labyrinth that is life with nothing more than a tiny flashlight to lead the way. There was no rule book to explain the right way to do things. And, the saddest part about that time period is that is was probably the greatest opportunity for something wonderful to happen. The fervor, the masses of people gathering together in unity, fighting a common cause…it is awe inspiring. However, you throw psychedelic drugs and blind idealism into the mix… Well, you get a lot of mistakes and regrets. :)

      Thanks for stopping to comment!!

  12. 2009 May 12

    Cool post – it is critical to look past all the illusion – to the heart of the matter – ‘we hold these truths to be self evident, that all people are created equal – endowed with certain unalienable rights, among these life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness’ – liberty, freedom is freedom from government, liberty leads to wealth and the opportunity to provide, care, concern for the environment and so on – only freedom as defined in our constitution provides the framework for all of the beautiful things that people do of their own free will.

    • 2009 May 12

      Nice thought. Never hurts to have those wonderful words quoted to me. Happy to hear you enjoyed the post. :)

  13. 2009 May 13
    jmurphpix permalink

    Well done. You made several points that I agree with wholeheartedly.

    It seems easy today for the left to serve up a Utopian society filled with messages that bring people into the fold. Once they become a member of the club and spend years of their lives believing in the promises of absolute peace and help for all it’s hard for them to admit that their thoughts were for not.

    There is no Utopia, there is evil in this world and there will always be people to exploit that. We need to stand resolute, reach a hand to empower those less fortunate and hold dear to the values this country was built on.

    The most important value in my mind is Freedom. That value is slipping away from us every time Congress convenes. Freedom to be less taxed, freedom to choose our representation without heavy handed media biases, freedom to be a “traditional” family that is not ridiculed by the radical left because it was once the norm.

    “Government, even in its best state, is but a necessary evil; in its worst state, an intolerable one.” -Thomas Paine

  14. 2009 May 21

    It is pretty obvious by the company that you keep on which side you feel most comfortable, that certainly doesn’t mean you have to openly declare one side or the other. I’ve always found the fact that you never really do get into the politics (when you’re not in twitterjail that is – does that still happen?) to be an awesome defining feature of yours. It’s easy to fall into the politics trap.

    If one didn’t know any better, they’d never guess on which side of the line you stand. Of course, like I said, *some* of us are hip to the sort of company that you keep. I won’t name names.

    Subtly can go a long way and it’s awesome that someone so, erm, boisterous as you can really master that ability – at least when it comes to politics.

    Besides, who in their right mind wants to pay all those taxes?!?!?!

    AG
    @adrigonzo

    and yes I totally stalked over to your blog. I never get to talk to you anymore :P

    • 2009 October 20

      You should stalk over this way more often! Love hearing what you have to say.

  15. 2009 May 23
    Jon Upchurch permalink

    It’s rare these days to see anyone look past the polarization of the parties. It’s true, that in their core the parties are barely different at all, but as you said it’s all issue based. If we could just bar the 20% of the extremes from the political process, we’d be left with the 60% of the population who are NOT religious zealots and who are not mind-numb emotionally driven residents of their own dreams! I think what we’re experiencing in America now would benefit greatly from the rise of a central party who had the people’s interest at heart both for “fairness” and “security”. Unfortunately the current politics on both sides could never let go of their fiefdoms. We’re doomed to suffer under a faulty 2 party system!

    Great writing! After reading a few of your posts here and on Twitter I’ll be following to see what else you have to say! :)

    Jon Upchurch
    @jonupchurch

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